they only hurt when being fingered if the guy is fingering wrong. ;)
According to you, I finger myself wrongly then. Experience has taught me that I absolutely cannot orgasm from being touched with the pads of the fingers (whether his or mine): only the very tips will work, and so the nails have to be short.
I suppose it varies from girl to girl and their sensitive spots...maybe I have a higher pain tolerance in my cunt? O.o lol, no idea...I don't need the very tips of fingers in order to make me orgasm...to me, its all about the rhythm and movement of the finger and the way the sensitive spot is touched/rubbed etc. O.o
I am stupidly sensitive both inside and out − to give you an idea, simply not using a condom will give me irritation for days similar to that caused by thrush, and the condom has to be polyurethane as well as I am allergic to latex.
I think that the tip of the finger is more curved than the pad, and for me the curviness is critical, as it's more a flicking that results rather than a rubbing.
I envy you that you don't have to kick people out of bed to go cut their nails; it really spoils the mood.
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Date: 2006-02-08 02:49 pm (UTC)According to you, I finger myself wrongly then. Experience has taught me that I absolutely cannot orgasm from being touched with the pads of the fingers (whether his or mine): only the very tips will work, and so the nails have to be short.
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Date: 2006-02-09 01:48 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-02-09 03:22 pm (UTC)I am stupidly sensitive both inside and out − to give you an idea, simply not using a condom will give me irritation for days similar to that caused by thrush, and the condom has to be polyurethane as well as I am allergic to latex.
I think that the tip of the finger is more curved than the pad, and for me the curviness is critical, as it's more a flicking that results rather than a rubbing.
I envy you that you don't have to kick people out of bed to go cut their nails; it really spoils the mood.
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Date: 2006-02-09 11:07 pm (UTC)