Most definitely. You were the first person I encountered with the same sort of tastes in certain... activities. You certainly brought me out of myself somewhat. You were also the first person I loved but was 'denied' a relationahip with. Taught me a valuable lesson about love being a painful thing too.
Equally importantly, you were the first person I'd ever met from the poly-liestyle... I guess which was what started me thinking about it seriously, without which, I never would have met and fallen in love with Mark... which turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
You're a pretty pivitol figure in my life actually. I guess that's why I'll know you forever :)
You have been the voice of reason, and the voice of myself in times when I have not been able to be my own voice of reason, I can not find the words to either sum up our relationship or give worthy account of my gratitude unfortunatly " Thank you " will have to suffice.
hmmm.... well you know that recently you've had a hand in turning my libido around...
Have I changed anyone else's life? I'm not sure. I've had people listen to me, respond to me. etc... but whether I've actually changed people I don't know. Part of me hopes I have and part of me is afraid I may have!
you made me wear skirts. no, really. I did hate my scar that much, and you made me realise that I could cope, and was being a silly cow. sometimes, just sometimes, you can make me feel like I have worth to another being, a race with which I have hardly any meaningful interaction any more. and you give good hugs when they are really needed.
You have changed things directly and indirectly. *grin* I've shared some good times with you and other things have happened with regards to me meeting new people because of your actions.
Actually - you're distantly linked in a really vague way to something which changed my life forever - and changed someone elses! :)
I changed someones life. I think it was probably the biggest mistake I've ever made. People wish they could change the past, and sometimes - I do too. But if I had never made that mistake, I wouldn't be the person I am today. I believe sometimes we have to learn the hard way to become stronger :/
'Sides, denny, you've changed my whole perspective :)
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Date: 2005-11-08 10:36 pm (UTC)Equally importantly, you were the first person I'd ever met from the poly-liestyle... I guess which was what started me thinking about it seriously, without which, I never would have met and fallen in love with Mark... which turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
You're a pretty pivitol figure in my life actually. I guess that's why I'll know you forever :)
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Date: 2005-11-09 08:59 am (UTC)Heh, that's a great typo. :) Glad I prodded you in good directions sweetie (oo-er).
*snugglehugs*
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Date: 2005-11-08 11:28 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-09 10:33 am (UTC)Have I changed anyone else's life?
I'm not sure. I've had people listen to me, respond to me. etc... but whether I've actually changed people I don't know. Part of me hopes I have and part of me is afraid I may have!
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Date: 2005-11-09 04:01 pm (UTC)sometimes, just sometimes, you can make me feel like I have worth to another being, a race with which I have hardly any meaningful interaction any more.
and you give good hugs when they are really needed.
I think you are great.
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Date: 2005-11-09 10:16 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-11-12 01:03 am (UTC)I changed someones life. I think it was probably the biggest mistake I've ever made. People wish they could change the past, and sometimes - I do too. But if I had never made that mistake, I wouldn't be the person I am today. I believe sometimes we have to learn the hard way to become stronger :/
'Sides, denny, you've changed my whole perspective :)