Meh.

Dec. 12th, 2005 05:03 pm
denny: (Loser)
[personal profile] denny
Today sucks. Saw it coming, but that doesn't make it any better.

The girl I was seeing who wasn't sure about the idea of poly, has decided that she is sure. She doesn't like it. So that's that.

In other news, I've had more random contacts from unknown ICQ users in the last week than in the preceeding 7 or 8 years (yes, I have been using ICQ for a long time). I don't know if they've changed their system in some way, or if I've been put on some 'would like to chat' list for some reason, but it's getting bloody annoying. I suppose I should ask one of them why they're contacting me, where they got my ID from. If it doesn't slow down I'm going to have to put ICQ onto 'ignore anyone not on my contact list' mode, which I don't really want to do.

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Date: 2005-12-12 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
She's decided that this week. She might change her mind once thing settle down.

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dennyd.livejournal.com
It's possible. Not sure how many times I want to set myself up for this particular fall though...

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
I know, but . . .worth waiting to see till the end of this week at least i'd imagine.
You should send her flowers anyway. Flowers are good.

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] libellum.livejournal.com
Agreed. Definitely flowers. Nobody gets sent flowers often enough.

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Date: 2005-12-12 07:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
I used to get them alot, like every week or so, and then . . . i moved in with him. Bah!

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Date: 2005-12-13 09:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] libellum.livejournal.com
I've only got them about four times ever in a romantic context. Woe!

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Date: 2005-12-14 08:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluecassandra.livejournal.com
Gah. I think you have to train them. I think Denny's getting the idea!

Flower bloke also bought me a dress one year, oinly to have a massive crisis of confidence when his sisters informed him that women don't like long red dresses! It was a slinky bias cut thing from Ghost. I love it, and reckon his sisters were just pissed off they didn't get one!

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Date: 2005-12-13 08:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aiwendel.livejournal.com
definately!

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] robinbloke.livejournal.com
Sorry to hear :(

But speaking of ICQ I wouldn't mind being able to ping you on that?

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dennyd.livejournal.com
Welcome to... all my IM details are in my LJ userinfo.

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] robinbloke.livejournal.com
Cheers; been out of touch for a bit and be good to burble randomly again :)

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Date: 2005-12-12 06:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bennyabennya.livejournal.com
*gives you a squish* it will work out for the best!

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Date: 2005-12-12 07:55 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2005-12-12 10:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] missyasmina.livejournal.com
*comfortsnuggle*

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Date: 2005-12-12 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] burritob.livejournal.com
ah, bummer :(

As for ICQ - I've been copping the exact same thing...

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Date: 2005-12-13 07:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] djlongfella.livejournal.com
Sorry to hear your news, hope things pick up for you soon.

< ICQ > Yup, exactly the same happening here, have been using ICQ for years without much " spam " messages, over the last week have been getting loads of people contact me who I don't know, and I certainly haven't changed any of my settings, although now I have gone to " Only accept from people on my list " mode.

Speak soon matey.

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Date: 2005-12-13 08:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aiwendel.livejournal.com
presumably she's afraid of being hurt, and the relationship not being balanced... (and there's the brain chemical some people just aren't mono/poly depending on dopamine set up)...

I think sending flowers and attention and showing you care is a great idea.
You should do it.

*kiss*
xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Date: 2005-12-13 01:18 pm (UTC)
cryx: me showing off hair done by a stylist from paris (Default)
From: [personal profile] cryx
sucky :(
Hope it all goes as well as possible...

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