I'm the same with mine, I only let 'my' hairdresser touch it.

It's very close to right... you want it a little more like this (http://pics.livejournal.com/kissycat1000/pic/0001bypx/g10) (I can't find the photo of you with your hair like it, so have a random blonde instead). You look very cute with little strands trailing on your shoulders. :)